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PAIN ENDS
Another lady indoors carried on her canvas the old apple pie wishing a nice day. The impulse to run that one down to make the woman state her bona fides was resisted. On another day the lady would not have gotten away unchallenged.
Either/or was in fact welcome relief from GENTLE WOMAN. Truly!! Yeow!… That one was seriously pulping the brain.
Months it had been only GW bags, albeit carpet dimension. Now, suddenly without warning, the progression to purses & apparel.
The older gal here, older than the second—first was advanced years—with her usual heavy eye-liner, had tried on a shy smile last week, after sheepishly fetching up to the table at the end of the row. Make-up, smart office/front desk navy, tightly bound coloured bun. The echo of the Italo/Grecian tragics, those beauties who had never found love nor managed children, surprised in that unfamiliar Chinese form. For her tea break the lady didn’t cart her bag, though there was certainly a GW in her wardrobe.
The regular 4PM Indian techies at Toast Box knew the style you yourself were sporting, by the way, Buster. For them the slightly ragged, dishevelled chic referenced the old saddhus back home, the gurus & holy men. Didn’t get much of a run hereabout, especially in the biz quarter.
These particular guys were quiet & shy; couple generations later the colour bar still remained. You got that as one of the esteemed privileged, from all three races here; but the Indians in bucketloads. Passing a word, a comment or hallo, automatically elicited a start, with something like gratitude in the blushing.
But Gent double V. That tickle would not let up. It kept on keeping on. Feminism had barely scratched the surface in these parts on the Equator. There were plenty of feisty, knowing old gals around the place; the feathery snowball fem, however, certainly did blitz the field. Some of the chipmunk voices on the street drilled through the bone. Nothing anywhere comparable. Minnie Mouse & the other cuties essentially.
Couple years ago one of the conservative Malaysian Ministers… But this was going to sound crazy, impossible. Who would believe?
…Women ought, suggested said Minister—for women’s affairs, from memory, in the recent backdoor government up on the Peninsular. Lady by the name of Rina Harum. (Google to confirm.)
…Women ought, counselled Minister RH, in her tight scarf & caked make-up… Ought speak to their husbands like the cartoon character Doraemon. Lisped she, Rina.
Well, whatever that fun cutie critter might be. You read it here. Sic. Quote / unquote. No make-believe or invention; on the public record and easily verifiable.
(Women, Family & Community Devel, in the Ismail Sabri government of Malaysia. Also some wee way contentious Rina on the subject of underage marriage. Check that out too.)
Thought had been Gentle was first adopted in the fashion houses of France or Spain, as part of the backlash. We’re on your side, boys. All for it. Trad. gentling laid on here. You can count on us.
Advertising. Allow women to be women. Cats & poodles. Pleated skirts, heels, nails & lashes.
Beauty duty was a given here; matter of course. Well-nigh impossible to get a look-in otherwise, on a career ladder, or any place else. You almost never saw casual Gentles; nothing but the full panoply. Twenty-five minute prep before getting out the door.
They wouldn’t exactly gravitate to old, worn guys with bad teeth, though naturally the whiting did retain its allure. Certainly got you a foot in the door.
NB. Googling again, the Thai genesis was surprising up in those BKK ateliers. A triumph for the designers.
Singapore, 2011-25